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5 Ways to Come Out to Your Family & Friends


Coming out is a very personal experience, but the process is not just about you. Depending on your connection with others, you may have to share your news with different people in different ways. No matter how you choose to come out, be true to yourself and be proud of who you are.

Have a Face-to-Face Conversation


Although it may be an emotional experience, having a conversation with a loved one in person will allow that person to see, feel, and better understand the magnitude of the moment for you—and will allow you to do the same in return

Put it in Writing


Your loved one might appreciate the time, energy, and emotion you put into a hand-written heartfelt letter, rather than an email or text message, which may come off as impersonal

Post it on Social Media


If you have the “go big or go home” mentality and want to avoid having to constantly come out to different people, you can tell everyone you know at exactly the same time by blasting your news on social media

Ask a Confidant to Share the News


If you have at least one person you trust and can confide in, be “one and done” by seeking their help in respectfully sharing your news with others

Let Your Actions Speak For You


Not everyone needs to have some big coming out moment, so if you want to avoid having to find the right words to say at exactly the right time, just start living your life the way you were born to and people will catch on soon enough

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